A divorce is often a very painful experience. It is difficult to accept that everything you fought for – everything that was once so good and thrilling, perfect and pure - has come to an end. People often grieve over the loss of a marriage and that is perfectly normal. Many will have a hard time adjusting to the overwhelming feelings that you go through during a divorce, but with the right support system to help you through it, you can be happy and feel ‘normal’ again in time.
Here are some ways to help you handle the transition…

As you begin to take care of yourself on the inside, mentally and emotionally, you should also take care of yourself on the outside. Get enough rest and sleep to help reduce stress and anxiety. Exercise is an excellent way to not only burn off stress and anxiety but also keep yourself healthy. People who exercise regularly often have higher levels of self-esteem than those who don’t. If you don’t have an exercise plan yet, this would be the best time to include it in your daily plans of activity. Exercising does not only helps you increase your physical health, but studies show that people who exercise regularly are less depressed and are happier than those who don’t. Having your own exercise routine will help you greatly in accepting and overcoming the feelings of grief.
Often times it is best to call for professional help with divorce to get all the help you need. Although it is advisable to share your feelings with friends and family, a professional counsellor can give you new insights and is trained and educated in ways to specifically help you get through this difficult time. Sharing your feelings with friends and family is great, but sometimes you just don’t want to open up to everyone that way and it is more comfortable to be able to freely discuss your feelings with a professional counsellor instead. Your therapist will listen to every detail of the problem and make helpful suggestions to speed you along the road to recovery.
